Our partners are our second half, those who we will usually treat better than we treat ourselves.
And that is why, at a baseline, we struggle to say no.
But what if your partner asked:
OR
Even though they didn’t repay you the last couple times.
OR
Even though it is just a platonic friend.
You might read along and think these are somewhat reasonable requests, or that they’re not bothersome…
Now, what if you said NO and in return you were hit with:
And then they go radio silent for the next hour or two.
And then they are mad at you.
And then they mock and belittle you.
Is that reasonable? Is that fair on you? Is that being an understanding and respectful partner?
It makes you feel anxious and guilty.
You overthink until you start to believe you’re the problem and they’re the victim.
They strip you of your self-worth to the point they control every aspect of your life.
And that is JUST the tip of the iceberg.
isn’t just about healing and learning to set impenetrable boundaries...
It’s about building skills that will empower you for the rest of your life.
✓ You will learn how to identify and deal with prickly people.
✓ You will become unable to be manipulated.
✓ You will love yourself.
✓ And you will become in control of absolutely EVERYTHING in your life.
All you need to be is committed.
Your relationships with people will change, and as harsh as that sounds…
Well, I won’t spoil the best part.
A tried, tested, and proven system of malicious things to look out for when you communicate
with people, and how to deal with them.
If you meditate three times a month, sorry, but nothing is going to change.
If you ignore your problems, they don’t disappear—they just grow in the dark.
And if you turn your "No" into a "Maybe," an "I'm not sure," or a reluctant "Fine"—those are not boundaries.
I’ve walked this path, lived it, and re-lived it a hundred thousand times—
through my own experiences and through the relationships that pulled me back in.
I spent years trying to understand, to escape, to heal.
I dedicated 16 years of my life to learning everything I could about breaking free.
And if you’re anything like me, you don’t settle for less. When you commit to something, you want to learn from the best.
I’ve seen firsthand how toxic relationships—whether with family, friends, or partners—strip people of their ability to fight back.
They leave you questioning yourself, twisting your understanding of love, connection, and your own worth.
And too often, it leads to ruin.
I don’t want that for you. I want to share everything I’ve learned so that what happened to me doesn’t happen to you.
This version of you exists inside, you just need the secret to unlock it.
I am 100% confident you will leave with clarity and a new perspective on the world.
If you don’t, a full refund no questions asked.
Do you feel like you have to wait until they are in a good mood before you ask them for something?
Or have you been too scared to argue because you know they will invalidate, blame, and make you feel like sh!t?
Never again.
With each step you will gain a deeper understanding into how and why this happens, and how your body was trying to warn you.
If you’ve ever thought, “This doesn't feel right” about the way you were being treated, let me assure you, you were not getting a false alarm.
Something REALLY was wrong.
I personally HATE when things are over complicated for the sake of appearing more complex.
It’s like writing an essay about a book and changing “because” to “in a coalescent response to a combination of hurtful stimuli” yadda yadda ya.
Yeah, none of that here!
Don't like face to face and prefer to go at your own pace? I’ve got you.
Prefer talking and discussing rather than always listening? (Hey, me too 😝 ) I’ve got you.
Want to stay committed and reassured during your healing? I’ve got you.
Want personalized advice and a hand to lift you up if things get confusing or too much? I’ve. Got. You.
I’ve helped hundreds, and I’ll help you without a second thought or hesitation.
Get lifetime access to my proven 5-step process for identifying, communicating, and enforcing unshakable boundaries—without guilt or fear.
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🔹 BONUS: 2 powerful boundary meditations to protect your energy & boost confidence
But if you’re finally fed up of being hurt, and having your emotions played like a fiddle…
Then find your limits, and don’t let ANYONE step past them again.
This course is so life changing and everyone should take it, regardless if you've been in a toxic relationship or not. Jackie guides you to find your limiting beliefs and challenge them, she walks you through finding your values, and then goes deep into teaching you how to set boundaries. Jackie has a way of explaining things so clearly that the information just clicks. The course takes 3 months to get through, but I guarantee you will be completely different person afterwards. This is information I will absolutely come back to when needed. Thank you Jackie for creating this course and changing people's lives.
Melissa, USA
It's obvious that Jackie has put so much work and effort into this course and it works!
I am a totally different person than I was a few months ago and I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to find this.
You will figure out so much about yourself and why you always doubt and question yourself. I feel so much more calm and peace than Read more about review stating Path to freedom!
I have in my entire adult life!! Thank You Jackie!
Dawn, CA
Taking the Finding Limits 10 week course with Jackie has been one of the best things I've ever done for myself. Paired with one on one video coaching, it has given me back my confidence, plus the skill set to be able to identify and hold my new found boundaries. I highly recommend Finding Limits and video calls with Jackie. Together they have worked seamlessly to help me find myself and to take that big scary step of being able to admit and say it out loud ...my marriage isn't healthy or working.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart Jackie, you have had a profound effect on my life. You are one in a million, thank you for everything you do.
Mel, CA
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