I used to be very good at choosing the wrong people.

Learning how to choose myself changed everything.

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Like a lot of people, I once believed my relationship patterns came from a single moment of trauma. But over time I realized something deeper was at work — I had been quietly taught to abandon myself. To perform. To prove. To stay small so I could belong. same stories.

The trauma was real.

But it was the conditioning that kept me repeating the same

What actually shifted my life wasn’t more healing — it was seeing those patterns clearly enough to stop living from them. I began to question the narratives I’d inherited and listen to what felt true inside my own body. That’s when my identity started to change.

Not in a dramatic, spiritual way — but in the ordinary, grounded moments where I chose differently.

That’s what I do now.

I don’t fix people.
I don’t save them.

I reflect what they already know so they can stop outsourcing their sense of self.

My work is about clarity, honesty, and the kind of presence that makes it hard to keep pretending.

What I Believe:

You are not broken.
You’ve been shaped.

Real change doesn’t come from endlessly working on yourself.
It comes from seeing yourself clearly enough to choose differently.

You already know what’s true for you.
My role is to help you hear it.

How I work

I don’t offer emotional processing or healing programs. Those tools live in the Legacy Library for people who are still making sense of their past.

My private work is about reflection, orientation, and self-authorship — meeting you where you are and helping you notice the patterns that are quietly running the show.

From there, the next step becomes obvious.

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