You Were Never Meant to Stay Small.

 For as long as I can remember, I’ve been told who to be, how to act, and what to want. 

Society.  Family.   Abusers.  

It's like I was strategically groomed to self-abandon—making me doubt myself, over-explain, and put everyone else first. 

 But deep down, I've always felt it. 

 That whisper inside saying, this isn’t me. 

 That pull toward something more. 

 That frustration of knowing I was stuck in a cycle that wasn’t even mine to begin with. 

Can you relate?

 Why hustle culture, perfectionism, codependency, and fear of rejection are not personality traits… but forms of control. 

  Spot the sneaky ways you’ve been conditioned to self-abandon and learn how to take your power back—without guilt  

  Not just as “self-care” but as an act of rebellion. (Hint: When you start saying no, watch how fast the wrong people reveal themselves.)   

   If you weren’t playing a role for others, who would you actually be? Let’s find out.   

 I’ll call out the hidden conditioning that keeps you stuck so you can finally break the cycle.

 Because awareness alone isn’t enough. You need tools to actually make a change. 

 The matrix wants you to stay small. To second-guess yourself. To fall in line.

But you?